Lessons from caring for my pets
/I’m grateful for the lessons I have learned from caring for pets over the years – lessons about faithfulness, tenderness, intelligence, trust, and persistence, among others.
Thirty years ago, I had a cat that loved exploring the neighborhood. I’d leave the back door open when I was home, but always made sure she was inside at night. For a while my roommate or I would have to walk the neighborhood in the evening calling the cat’s name to get her to come home. But when I prayed about it, I had a clear realization that the same Mind that guided me was guiding my cat, too. She could hear her own angels, and I could trust that God, divine Mind, would lead her. That very night when I went to the back door and called her name, she came running. From then on, we never needed to go further than the back door to let her know it was time to come in. She was always right there or came running.
Four years ago, I fostered and then adopted a cat who was quite nervous. She’d hide when anyone came into the house. She’d let me pet her, but she wouldn’t get too close. She’d never let me pick her up. I had been praying to see her as God sees all His spiritual ideas: a perfect expression of Love, of patience, tenderness, and dominion, with no material history to overcome, the outcome of divine intelligence, reflecting her divine source.
Then last fall, a couple from the neighborhood came over for dinner. This kitty went right up to them and was very friendly. This passage from Science and Health speaks to the change in her: “Mind’s creation, in which beauty, sublimity, purity, and holiness—yea, the divine nature—appear in man and the universe never to disappear (Science and Health, p. 509:25 Mind’s).
At one point this cat seemed to have daily epileptic-like fits. I would quickly pick her up and hold her closely until the shaking stopped. I prayed and declared out loud to her that she was secure in Love, safely cared for by God, good. He was omnipotent, supreme, and the only power governing her. And because she moved “in the harmony of Science, [she was] harmless, useful, indestructible” (Science and Health, p. 514:28–30).
With the help of a practitioner, she was healed of these seizures within a week. Subsequently, she was tremendously more loving and trusting. She enjoyed being held and was rather insistent about sitting on me or whatever I was working on, particularly the keyboard of my laptop!
Another time, this cat stopped eating and became very thin. I found this passage from Science and Health quite helpful: “The metaphysician, making Mind his basis of operation irrespective of matter and regarding the truth and harmony of being as superior to error and discord, has rendered himself strong, instead of weak, to cope with the case; and he proportionately strengthens his patient with the stimulus of courage and conscious power” (p. 423:18–24).
Skip’s editorial “Irrespective” also guided me: “Irrespective of is a potent phrase. It means ‘regardless of’ or ‘without consideration of.’…[The] fact is that what seems so material is essentially a conception or thought of things as material. Therefore it is possible for anyone to begin to leave an unreal, material basis of thought for thinking more from the standpoint of divine Spirit and its perfect expression in man….We see that we don’t have to measure our hope or possibility for harmony in accord with the complexity or ‘seriousness’ or length of duration of material circumstances. We have a new basis. Our ‘expectation is from him,’ as the Psalmist says” (“Irrespective,” Sentinel, October 13, 1986).
I was truly trusting that Mind would guide this sweet cat to do what was normal. I knew I didn’t need to “stand aghast” at anything that mortal mind suggested, because matter did not determine her being. Love gave her “might, immortality, and goodness,” irrespective of what conditions mortal mind suggested (Science and Health, p. 518:19–21). Soon she began to eat again, and much greater quantities of food.
Then another physical deformity seemed to appear. Yet it was clear to me to say no to the aggressive suggestion and yes to what I knew was true about her being. As Mrs. Eddy says in Science and Health, “Like the great Exemplar, the healer should speak to disease as one having authority over it, leaving Soul to master the false evidences of the corporeal senses and to assert its claims over mortality and disease” (p. 395:6–10).
I trusted that I could leave Soul, God to do the healing. But I needed to be clear about the facts of being. I stayed laser-focused on what God was revealing of His power and goodness. I am so grateful for the daily inspirations that came and were shared with the practitioner. A few days later, there began to be a draining. When this dear cat would come to me, I knew exactly what was needed. She began to lean into me to help with the cleaning. Mind unfolded to both of us how to express dominion. All through this she purred persistently, evidence to me that goodness was very real to her.
There was more evidence of character transformation. This cat had always seemed very serious and didn’t choose to play with cat toys I put out. But now she began chasing and batting at things in a playful way. She had been confining herself to the first floor, but now she would sometimes run upstairs in the morning, as if to say, “Okay, where are you?” I am so grateful for the opportunity to see this cat’s true identity as one of the beautiful, tender, and true expressions of God’s grace.
Something else is becoming clearer for me: “The relations of…divine Principle and idea, are indestructible in Science; and Science knows no lapse from nor return to harmony, but holds the divine order or spiritual law, in which God and all that He creates are perfect and eternal, to have remained unchanged in its eternal history” (p. 470:32).